You’re the shit.

If you have read anything I’ve posted, I do want to travel. I want to see the world and experience it all. I’ve been lucky enough to travel some in my lifetime, but I want to see more. My personal life is changing, a lot. Here I am, single, after almost six years. (That is a long time.)

It’s been an interesting last month. My relationship ended, I was supposed to be getting married in just under two months. But, that isn’t happening now. As much as it sucks, I’m okay. I’m sad about it all. It makes me sad to know that we couldn’t work it out, and that is just wasn’t meant to be. We had a lot invested with each other, and just a lot of memories together.

But it’s okay. What is this post about? It’s about being yourself and not settling for anything but what you deserve. Don’t let how difficult the near future will be stop you from doing it. You’re worth it. You’re the shit and don’t let anyone else make you feel different.

Right now my life feels like I’m going through a divorce but not actually going through a divorce. But, I’m happier than I’ve been in a long time. I’m finding myself. I’m turning 26 in less than three weeks. I’ve been living a healthy lifestyle since March and I’m down 30 pounds – but I’m gaining so much more.

I’m confident in my own skin. I bought a bikini to wear in Hawaii. I can’t wait to get away for a week. I’m my own person, I’m finding out what I really enjoy in life and making the most of it.

Life is too short to not be happy. Don’t be unhappy. Screw everyone else who doesn’t make you their number one. You deserve to be the number one. Go be you.

 

When life gives you lemons…

Sometimes, shit happens. Sometimes, it sucks. Sometimes, you just have to go through some tough shit to move on to the better shit. And that’s where I’m at now.

So this is the quote I’m living by.

“Better to be at the bottom of a ladder you want to climb than in the middle of some ladder you don’t, right?”

How true. I may now be at the bottom of a ladder, but it’s the right ladder. It’s a tall ladder, with a lot of shit on the bottom, but worth it.

 

So when life gives you lemons, you make the best damn lemonade you’ve ever had.